i have read in a magazine that mental monogamy means total faithfulness. a lot of people claim that they are loyal and faithful to their better half but are actually seeking and or chatting with other women online. i only have been married for more than one year and i know my relationship really havent gone through the "test" as others call it. its not easy to believe a person when you discovered that he is actually seeking and or chatting with other women online. is chatting with other women harmful to a relationship? in the first place, if you say that your busy why would you seek women and chat with them. very ironic for somebody who is busy or are you really busy at all?
a friend, whom i always idolized for her strength and resilient, told me before i went back to fairy tale land that i should not ask my boss too much questions. she said men, in general, doesnt like to be questioned. the last advise is dont let things get into your nerve. now that was not easy to follow. me and my boss met in the internet and i fear that he might meet somebody in the internet and replace me. i have been trying to overcome this fear since i got back. sometimes i am able to surpass it but sometimes its too much to handle that i just end up crying. it becomes extra hard when i discover things. a friend once said what you dont know, wont kill you. very true...shall i just shrug the things i discovered and pretend that i am having a grand time?
